We’re hobbling out of the high-fat, high-stress holidays and into a new year. In fact, we get a whole new decade. Everything is possible now but we need to lose 25 pounds and we’ll do it by signing up at the gym. Fewer pounds, more work-outs; two resolutions made most frequently and two with the highest failure rate. In fact, by mid-February, they’re toast.
The reason is because we attempt to change the essential nature of ourselves. We think we’ll transform from a fat person to a thin person, from someone who spends to someone who saves, from a person who detests exercise to one who loves workout equipment. Its as if a switch gets turned on at midnight on the 1st and we’ll look in the mirror and see someone new.
Here are some resolutions that are so easy we can all do them and best yet, we can stick with them.
1. Drink bottled water only when you’re on the move. Otherwise, drink tap.
2. Jump in place 40 times per week. A study reported in the New York Times says this is the best way to build bone density, better even than lifting free weights.
3. Resolve that at some point in the next 12 months, if there is someone you love who never hears that from you, you will tell them.
4. Absorb sunshine whenever you can, even if it’s through a window. My doctor says “most people” in Upstate New York are vitamin D deficient. Sunshine takes care of that, you just have to take it in.
5. Replace butter with olive oil whenever you can. Olive oil was found this year to be one of the five healthiest components of the Mediterranean diet, considered by doctors to be the healthiest diet in the world. The other four items are: salmon, almonds, beans such as navy, kidney, garbanzo, etc. , and wine.
6. Always approach people with a smile and look them square in the eye; the person at the grocery checkout, bank tellers, clerks. You’ll be amazed at how friendly everybody seems. It can change your life.
7. Bend down and reach for your toes. Every day. An earlier column on the blog addressed this exercise as a way to ward off a heart attack by increasing the flexibility of your arteries.
8. Clean out one closet or dresser. Just one. Over the next twelve months. Take it to the Goodwill. Someone might need the stuff more than you do.
9. Eliminate the $3.00 cup of coffee just one day per week. Just one day! You can do that! You’ll save $156.00 by this time next year.
10. Take a portion of that savings and anonymously apply it toward the layaway account of a stranger next Christmas. Altruism heals. I’ll write more about that tomorrow.
There. Is this reasonable? Did I forget some good ones? Let me know.






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Hi Maureen, yes this reasonable except for the 5th…Pascal only cooks with butter. I know what you think…why don’ she cooks herself …for 2 reasons :
Pascal is a great cook and I do not know how to cook … so I’m always on diet…
Life is hard sometimes…Anyway I wish to all a very happy new year !!!!
Great list. All very doable & “stick-to-able”.
My favorite is #6. Prior to meeting my husband, I was a keep my eyes on the ground kind of person – not out of unfriendliness, but out of shyness, lack of confidence, etc.
Seeing my husband’s positive way of relating to people – everyone, everywhere, really changed me. I’ll never be the extrovert he is, but it’s been a very positive experience, and something I always try to model for our 3 y/o, even when out at the grocery store. It’s amazing to see the younger version of his father light up the faces of everyone as he literally does look them square in the eye, say “hello,” and smile all without prompting. I don’t notice that with most young kids in the stores. He just knows already to acknowledge everyone – and it does as much, if not more good for him as it does for those people he amuses each day
Yes Delphine, life in France with a handsome and kind husband who cooks must be very, very difficult. lol. Happy New Year! Note to Blog readers: Delphine is my beloved former Au Pair from Nantes, France, who spent one year with our family in Syracuse in the early 1990s when she was 18. She now has an exquisite family of her own and we try to see each other every few years. Gros besous (big kisses) Delphine!
Cathy this is so sweet! Your affection for your husband and the appreciation the “friendly” gene got passed to your son is dear. I hope to run into all of you one of these days at the grocery store, or wherever. Happy New Year.
Your whole list sounds totally do-able- Thank you for giving us someting to think about. I have had personal experience with #6- For the past year or so I have made a special point of saying “good morning” or “good afternoon” as I pass people in a store or on the street. The response varies from total surprise and loss for words to a smiling response, even from the most sourest o f faces. I find myself feeling better and I think the recipient feels better, too. Sometimes just a little positive recognition can improve a person’s outlook on the day or for a little while at least.
Here’s wishing a safe and happy New Year for you and your family.
Cherie I so appreciate your thoughts. I think you are onto something. A friendly greeting makes an enormous difference in our interactions with others. I hope you have a Happy New Year as well. Best. M.
Happy New Year from The Swamp, I read last night that wine was bad for your health, so I made a New Years promise to quit reading this year!
Denny, HaHaHaHa. Love it. I’m with you on that one.
Maureen-
I’m always late doing the resolution thing…I guess I don’t want to think about giving up food while I’m still eating it! But the weekend is almost over and it’s time, back to reality. Resolutions….yours are just fine. Very reasonable…and practical…and most of all, meaningful.
Diet, exercise, love, helping others, smiles and sunshine…anything I would add would just be a variation on one of these. How bottled water snuck in there, I dunno…it is kinda health related I guess, and a money saver for sure. As for the $3 coffee, I’ll just keep doing Panera for 2/3 the price and throw in an oatmeal raisin cookie now and then.
I do wish you a very happy and healthy 2010.
Don
Happy New Year Don. Yes, do not give up any food while you are eating it. It is considered bad form.
Fewer bottles of water will help save the environment. And our wallets. Why spend a dollar for something that comes out of the tap for free? Especially since it’s been proven bottled water is just tap water from some other place. Just a big tap. Thanks for checking in. Wishing you all good things in 2010…M.
I wonder about the touching the toes thing. Elderly people who are unable to do so might be at elevated risk for a heart attack (you mentioned this earlier) but that doesn’t mean that working to get better at it will improve cardiac health. That would require demonstrating that cardiac incidents actually go down in people who practice touching their toes and get better at it. If there is such research I’ll be the first in line!
Hi Danny,
Yes, the article in the New York Times found a correlation in touching one’s toes and a reduced risk of heart attack. They believe a flexible body leads to flexible arteries and less resistance in moving the blood around. Keep stretching!