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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 14:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bill your insight is always enthusiastically welcomed on the blog.  Thank you for reading and for sharing your opinion.  Its a passionate subject with as many views as there are parents.  Have a good weekend, yourself.  Maureen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bill your insight is always enthusiastically welcomed on the blog.  Thank you for reading and for sharing your opinion.  Its a passionate subject with as many views as there are parents.  Have a good weekend, yourself.  Maureen</p>
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		<title>By: Bill Dalton, PhD</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bill Dalton, PhD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 14:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good Morning Maureen~

Parenting in the 50&#039;s, 60&#039;s, 70&#039;s and 80&#039;s was an art. 

Parenenting was an art back then, it allowed the  process or product of deliberately arranging elements in a way that appeals to the senses or emotions.

Respect then was instilled into our adolescence. Today&#039;s kids, well like Denny stated is lacking!!

Go to a City or County school, they have a Social Worker, Psychologist and Police Officers now taking the place of parents. In effect, the schools are raising our children.

I went to St. Patrick&#039;s and the nuns took care of all of the discipline needed!  At home it was a look or the famous &quot;wait until your father gets home mister.&quot;, there is that element lacking.

There were the occasional wooden spoons used or the stand in the corner very few and inbetween there was an occaional slap on the hands

Raising 4 children was not a walk in the park, but with the &quot;parenting skills&quot; instilled into both my wife and myself as children we managed just fine.

In the late 1980&#039;s discipline went out the window and child abuse entered. 

While there has always been a need for childrens protective services, parents have had a tool taken from them. This in my professional opinion is where it all started.

Have a great weekend everyone and thanks Maureen for letting me share my opinion.

Bill</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Morning Maureen~</p>
<p>Parenting in the 50&#8242;s, 60&#8242;s, 70&#8242;s and 80&#8242;s was an art. </p>
<p>Parenenting was an art back then, it allowed the  process or product of deliberately arranging elements in a way that appeals to the senses or emotions.</p>
<p>Respect then was instilled into our adolescence. Today&#8217;s kids, well like Denny stated is lacking!!</p>
<p>Go to a City or County school, they have a Social Worker, Psychologist and Police Officers now taking the place of parents. In effect, the schools are raising our children.</p>
<p>I went to St. Patrick&#8217;s and the nuns took care of all of the discipline needed!  At home it was a look or the famous &#8220;wait until your father gets home mister.&#8221;, there is that element lacking.</p>
<p>There were the occasional wooden spoons used or the stand in the corner very few and inbetween there was an occaional slap on the hands</p>
<p>Raising 4 children was not a walk in the park, but with the &#8220;parenting skills&#8221; instilled into both my wife and myself as children we managed just fine.</p>
<p>In the late 1980&#8242;s discipline went out the window and child abuse entered. </p>
<p>While there has always been a need for childrens protective services, parents have had a tool taken from them. This in my professional opinion is where it all started.</p>
<p>Have a great weekend everyone and thanks Maureen for letting me share my opinion.</p>
<p>Bill</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 13:03:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your thoughts Denny.  You have certainly seen a lot in your days driving a bus.  I agree, discipline is sadly lacking everywhere in society today and it seems former generations did it better.  Maureen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your thoughts Denny.  You have certainly seen a lot in your days driving a bus.  I agree, discipline is sadly lacking everywhere in society today and it seems former generations did it better.  Maureen</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 13:01:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Carol.  Sorry to have you &quot;feel&quot; the punishment without having done anything wrong!  Maureen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Carol.  Sorry to have you &#8220;feel&#8221; the punishment without having done anything wrong!  Maureen</p>
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		<title>By: Denny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Denny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 12:18:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good Mornin Maureen, Just a thought or two on this subject.  Kids born before the 80&#039;s for some reason ,showed respect for authority. They could go shopping with their parents, go to school and learn in their classroom and talk with a policeman with respect. I did not see one count of ten or award to get proper behavior. Wonder if parents at home had some secret way of getting this behavior from there kids. Yes they did! I was raised on it, my kids were raised on it and you could send them out in public alone or with you and did not have to count to ten at all, of course the teacher the bus driver and all adults they delete with had the same authority and to know they called your parents sure gives you a long walk home and time think how bad you screwed up! I have driven school bus and found out that parents will not believe what their little darlins&#039; have done and have no respect for authority. I wonder what is missing from their upbringing! Maybe it is a recording in Wal Mart of a kid screaming because it is always there. Ever hear ( do you need a reason to cry?) Want to make your kids to behave, bring them to a old grand parent that was raised with respect. Ouch!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good Mornin Maureen, Just a thought or two on this subject.  Kids born before the 80&#8242;s for some reason ,showed respect for authority. They could go shopping with their parents, go to school and learn in their classroom and talk with a policeman with respect. I did not see one count of ten or award to get proper behavior. Wonder if parents at home had some secret way of getting this behavior from there kids. Yes they did! I was raised on it, my kids were raised on it and you could send them out in public alone or with you and did not have to count to ten at all, of course the teacher the bus driver and all adults they delete with had the same authority and to know they called your parents sure gives you a long walk home and time think how bad you screwed up! I have driven school bus and found out that parents will not believe what their little darlins&#8217; have done and have no respect for authority. I wonder what is missing from their upbringing! Maybe it is a recording in Wal Mart of a kid screaming because it is always there. Ever hear ( do you need a reason to cry?) Want to make your kids to behave, bring them to a old grand parent that was raised with respect. Ouch!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Carol O'Shea Haber</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol O'Shea Haber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 11:53:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent blog Maureen.  I could FEEL the tension at that kitchen table with your Dad.  Anxious to read about your method of discipline.   Carol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent blog Maureen.  I could FEEL the tension at that kitchen table with your Dad.  Anxious to read about your method of discipline.   Carol</p>
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