I am famous for picking things up with a passion and dropping them just as quickly. The carcasses of my various hobbies and interests line the halls of my memory; crewel embroidery, needlepoint, smocking, rose gardening, landscape painting, jewelry, furniture refinishing, calligraphy….just as the oil portraits of ancestors hang on the halls of English manor houses.
When I began this blog one year ago I thought it would be like any other blog. My sisters, one or two of my children and handful of very close friends might check in from time to time, but it would otherwise be an obscure URL on the increasingly crowded world wide web. What did I know?
I’ve “met” new friends who are beyond dear to me for their loyalty and support. Those sisters and children and friends are more faithful readers than I expected them to be. And in writing about the murder of a high school classmate in 1975, I learned I wasn’t the only one who tossed and turned for 34 years over a life that ended too soon. This blog is a source of catharsis, of community and of hope. I am reminded that everything is possible, still.
I’ve been busy of late; providing image consulting for a political candidate, writing content for other web sites and enjoying the company of my first-born child, my only daughter who moved home after a year and a half on the west coast. Now at 23, Natalie is an extraordinary young woman who I enjoy more than I thought any mother could enjoy any child. We laugh a connected and knowing laugh that is difficult to stop and I wonder sometimes how I created this splendid human being.
I overheard Natalie tell a friend on the phone today that we’ve been doing everything together and she’s having a great time of it. Imagine. A young woman boasting that she enjoys time with her mother. How lucky we are. Natalie reminded me we had a rough patch several years ago when she was a teenager, but I can honestly say I didn’t see it. I knew she wanted total independence back then, far more independence than she could handle or would be good for her, and in ignoring her anger about that, I saw it as nothing unusual.
So my apologies for neglecting my blogging lately. I hope you understand. Maureengreencny.com is not just another hobby I picked up and put down. Unlike the jewelry supplies and the acrylic paint which sit on shelving in the basement, my computer is always close by. I’ll do better to stay in touch.
Loading ...
{ 22 comments… read them below or add one }
Glad to see you back. I admittedly check in often, hoping to read more from you, because I love the way you write, and the topics you choose, and the way you write about the topics you choose
You provide an awesome diversion for a “stay at home” mom to a 3 y/o — a SAHM who often thinks she’s going to lose her ever-lovin’ mind. And when I can’t sleep at night, I surf the web, and frequently come back here to see if any of those regulars you spoke of left some of their thoughts, which I enjoy reading just as much. I was never much of a blog follower in general, but I really do enjoy this, and I DID miss reading new things from you the past few days.
So glad for you that your daughter is home, and that you have such a wonderful relationship with her. I think of my future with my son often, and I do hope for that. I don’t want to have a Mama’s boy, but I do hope we always remain close. You must have done a lot right!
Have a good night.
Good Mornin Maureen, Boy am I glad to see you back. I checked everyday for a new blog message and the same thing would appear,so, I beat the computer on top incase some thing was stuck up at the top and would drop down. Keep the great ideas and the mind twisters coming on. Glad you did not give up on some of us meat heads because it makes a great start for my day I know.Keep stirring the pot you will never know what will show=up.
Maureen, so good to hear from you. I love the Natalie story. I had some stormy years with one of my sons, living at home while going to college. Years later when he was doing well and on his own he asked me to go to Ireland as his guest. It was such a shock and thrill and turned out to be a very special 12 days. I went to Ft. DeSota on the Gulf this week, to visit my friend’s daughter who was camping there. It’s a beautiful park with many white sandy beaches. It’s finally in the low seventies and quite pleasant. Hope you find time to keep on blogging. Carol
Cathy you are dear. I’ll try to find new topics for the middle of the night.–perhaps while I’m up in the middle of the night with insomnia too.
You’re so lucky to have a three old boy. I hope he does become a momma’s boy, just like my three sons. Boys do love their mommies.
Thanks a ton Denny. I can picture you pounding on the computer for a stuck article like we kick the soda machine.
Carol, it’s funny how things calm down with age, right? Especially if you’re in total denial of any problems like I am. I’m happily unaware of the troubles that may brew around me, which is exactly where I intend to stay.
So happy to know you have a friend in your grown son, and to know the classic Florida weather has finally arrived.
Works for me! Just as long as the blog doesn’t go the way of the calligraphy. Come to think of it, I too have a calligraphy set buried somewhere in the cellar …now that is dating us as that hasn’t been “in” for a long time.
Really though, all you had to say was something like my daughter is back home and we’re busy for now….I’ll get back to you. Any parent would have instantly understood and said amen.
Amen …. but don’t you dare go away!
Don
No problem Maureen. It’s amazing to me how quickly time passes when you don’t expect it. Days turn to weeks which turn to months. Only three weeks now before pitchers and catchers are supposed to report for spring training. Winter’s almost over!
Thanks for your kind words.
Just laughed thinking that I actually could have answered “yes,” I do have a grown child living with me – husbands count, right?
Glad you’re back, Maureen! I usually check the blog first thing in the morning (my dose of morning sanity). I’m glad your daughter is home! My daughter was away for a while, and while it can be a challenge at time to have three generations living in the same house, I’d rather have it that way than to have her far away. She just made reservations for herself, my grandson and I to go to Disney in May! We can’t wait!!!
Hello Maureen. This is Denny’s daughter Babes again. My Dad seems to live for your blogs. He is always telling me to go and check the site because you ( Or He ) had something wonderful to say. If your ever at a loss , my father would even make a great article. ( Boy does he have some good stories ) I love my Dad dearly and he is always there to make you laugh. If not with him , then at him!
Maureen
I’m so thankful for this blog. I really enjoy reading your posts and some of the posts just make me sit back and chuckle. Thanks so much and don’t worry when you need time away – we all do from time to time!
Don you are so great. Great for understanding, and great for my funny bone. I really enjoy you.
Yes, Kelly, what a great attitude! You’re right. Spring training is almost upon us. Go Sox!
OMG Cathy, that is so funny. Yes, husbands do count in that poll.
Thank you Pat! I’m so glad to know you enjoy the blog. Hopefully I’ll be as lucky as you to have three generations under the same roof for awhile. Right now I’m just loving two. Enjoy your planning for Disney in May. What a treat.
Babes, hello again! And yes, you are right. I am a major fan of your Dad. He does keep me laughing. Do take care of him, because his comments make my day. Best to you. M.
Denise, you are dear. Thank you for being so faithful. I must really improve my game to prove myself worthy. It’s great to hear from you. M.
And I you.
Obviously many, many others enjoy you as well. And odds favor that there are readers who feel this way but just don’t “post.”
To paraphrase a line from Field of Dreams….if you write it, they will read. I think it fair to say you have built something special here. It has a nice, special niche that resonates with people on many levels.
Remember that old adage …. be careful what you ask for? Well, you’re not writing to the clouds anymore. What you wished for is here. And that is a good thing.
Life gets busy. I sometimes envision you gazing skyward, with 4 or 5 twirling balls suspended over your head at once. So, whatever combination of factors tore you away – your daughter, work issues, other projects, writer’s block, need to take a break (all of the above?), I’m glad you’re back! We all are.
Happy Anniversary Blog…somewhere around here!
Don
Don, I think you are a better writer than I am. I do love your style. But most of all I am so grateful you find something useful in my little blog. Thank you so very, very much. I’m sure you’re right, that the anniversary is about now, but I don’t remember the exact date. It’s been a quick year! Thanks again.
Why Maureen Green, I do believe you just made me turn beet red. I thank you so much for those generous words. You made my day, no wait, the way things are going, make that week.
I will say that you are an inspiration. I mean that. And so far as that makes one write period, and at times that writing is elevated to somewhere remotely near your level, well….good for you. I believe you do elicit many personal, honest, emotional, well written thoughts and opinions from your readers.
I do love your “little blog.”
Don
Thanks again Don. Your loyalty keeps me writing and I do agree with you about our readers. I love all the comments that come in. So keep ‘em coming!:)